For the process, not the decision
Nobody hands you a manual when the marriage ends.
Split Decision is the playbook for the divorce process: the money, the kids, and your sanity, in order.
One day you are arguing about the dishwasher. The next, you are awake at 2am searching how custody works, with a hollow feeling in your chest and a hundred questions nobody in your life can answer straight.
Here is what nobody tells you at the start: divorce is a process, and processes can be learned. There is an order to it. A first week. A quiet prep phase before anyone files. A right way to hire a lawyer and a wrong way that costs you forty thousand dollars to discover. A method for splitting the money that protects what you built. A way to tell the kids that keeps them steady.
You do not need to be brave right now. You need to be prepared. Bravery can wait its turn.
This book walks the whole arc in the order you will actually live it: the first week, the quiet prep, your lawyer, your money team, the emotional weather (faced early, not buried), the full financial picture, the house question, debts and credit, retirement and hidden money, telling the kids, custody that works, co-parenting like a professional, your single financial life, and the first year. Fourteen chapters. One steady voice. Zero legal jargon.
That is how much divorce enquiries spike at family law firms every January. If you are reading this, you are not early and you are not alone. You are right on time.
Split Decision
Divorce Has a Playbook. Protect Your Money and Your Sanity While Keeping the Kids Steady
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What is actually inside
- The first week, hour by hour. What actually happens when, and the three decisions you must not make yet.
- The quiet prep. What to gather and lock down before anyone says the word divorce out loud.
- Hire a guide, not a gladiator. How to pick the right lawyer and the right lane: litigation, mediation, or collaborative.
- The emotional weather, faced early. Grief, anger, relief, shame, and the 8pm loneliness, named instead of buried.
- The whole money picture. Net worth, debts, burn rate, and the living ledger that keeps your case file current.
- The house question. Stay, sell, or buy out, with the buyout math nobody walks you through.
- Debts and your credit. Joint debt after separation, and how to shorten the credit damage timeline.
- Retirement and hidden money. QDROs in plain language, plus the 10-year Social Security rule most people miss.
- Telling the kids. Scripts by age, and the routines that are the real reassurance.
- Custody that works. Schedules built for real life, and the mistakes that cost the most.
- Co-parenting like a professional. The business-partner model, and parallel parenting when cooperation fails.
- Your single money life. The budget of one, rebuilt from zero.
- The first year. Month by month, the first holidays, and starting over at 50 plus.
- Your first 30 days. A day-by-day appendix so you always know what to do next.
You will make a hundred decisions in the next year. Most of them are reversible. A few of them are not, and those are the ones this book exists for. The signature you put on the wrong paper in month two can follow you for a decade. The conversation you have with your kids next week will echo for years.
The process punishes the unprepared. It rewards the ones with a playbook.
About the author
Leo Vance is a behavioral strategist and cultural critic based in Austin, Texas. He writes short, punchy, no-fluff guides for overwhelmed millennials and Gen Z. His rule: if it does not work on your worst day, it does not work. On this topic he writes the way he wishes someone had written for him: steady, tender, and allergic to shame.
Fair questions
Is this legal advice?
No. This is a practical process guide, not a law book and not a lawyer. Divorce law varies by state, so you still need an attorney for your specific situation. This book makes you the kind of client attorneys love: organized, informed, and hard to overbill.
My divorce is already underway. Is it too late?
No. Jump straight to the chapter you need. The book is built in process order, but every chapter stands on its own. Most readers in the middle of a split start with the money chapters or the kids chapters.
I do not have kids. Is this still for me?
Yes. The introduction has a reader fork that marks exactly which chapters are the kids chapters (10 through 12), so you can skip them cleanly. Everything else, the money, the lawyer, the house, the rebuild, applies in full.
How do I get the book?
Click any button on this page and complete checkout. Your ebook opens in the LeoVance Ebook Manager app in your Whop library, and a download link is also emailed to you.
What if it does not help me?
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- The Lawyer Interview Scorecard (FREE). The questions that matter in a first consultation, plus a scoring grid to compare lawyers.
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Reader stories
Reader stories coming soon. Real words from real readers, once the reviews roll in.
The process is happening either way.
The only question is whether you walk it with a playbook or without one.
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